SCREW PERFECTION

Desire is desire where ever you go, it’s naturally part of ourselves kind of agitation to progreess anything of us signifcantly, which always create and focus on demanding satisfaction, Desire is actually about  making and managing everything surround us become more and more, it’s commonly never get satisfy and always looking for something better in logical perception.

But there is one condition you have consider more than just a desire! it usually known as “perfection”. It’s kind of a desires to achieve something bigger for high standard as a form of completnees related to unrealistic goals have to be attained constantly. The circumstances shows how persons in this  perception feeling paranoid of the word “failure” by doing an act of making something perfect and definetely created things up a bit more than it should, maybe worse!

In modern life perfection can be assumed as growing feeling in society. The circumstance feels so rough. It’s  apparently become an habit to those who wants to set anything excellently more than the others ever did. they are tends to expect too much of themselves. You know these time how everyone like to show off  how great they are, how great they do, by striving anything beyond the line even manipulating the situation to look good as they have planed.

These day, perfection is quitely appear on everyone’s thought. It’s purposed and have a goal straight forward to fulfill self satisfaction in any aspect.

 As it explanation on Wikipedia “Perfectionists have also been described as those who strain compulsively and unceasingly toward unobtainable goals, and who measure their self-worth with their productivity and accomplishment. Pressuring oneself to achieve such unrealistic goals inevitably sets the individual up for disappointment. Perfectionists tend to be harsh critics of themselves when they do not meet the standards they set for themselves”.

It more rather to self compliment, It shows how pathetic we really are in a way to recover our lack of  lives that actually don’t exist. If we think What we do in the name of perfection is persuade and attract everything as best as we can to make our lives more comfort and feeling better. Well, it is not!...infact we just get into the level that we can’t understand.

Imagine there are always word “incomplete” in your life, You can’t be free, you can’t relax every minutes you have, you can’t even enjoy your life....More you do more it worse, it’s something that we have to worry about. It is kind of self harm and it will make your responsibility doubling up more than you can handle.

By persuading a perfection, with or without realized  we put ourselves into misserable manners and Low self esteem. we do nothing but glorified, which indicates our excessive standard to take anything in our live only causing pain because most of us feeling guilty and useless when we don't achieve something completly perfect. 

In perfection half of us feeling no comfort anylongger to what our lives supposed to be, A tendency who lives in perfection to push themselves out of the limit in a way to accomplish their goals, affect them can't take and compromise the failure which bringing them to the bad situation (depression).

However in normal thought, they can get satisfied in anything they do, even the goals aren’t complete as the plan, they are all still be okay  but perfection has deliver them to accept nothing less than well. It can be such as disaster to them if everything they had planned doesn’t work as well.

It looks good at one sides, bringing the spirit to what we do, but it also make us too dumb on how we push everything out of the ability. They are who trapped in perfection see anything differently, what is actually good doesn’t meant the same to them. They are trying to make their lives more than everyone else matters.

Perfection ussualy occurs in a cruel patterns of a life’s situation, Complexity and too many demands in this modern age, Presures by presures at the environment also contributing to create this behavior. 

Since we decided to be the best of what we do (more to result than a progress) and ignoring the understanding of our capability as a human being (beating your self up). It could be reasons why the symptom up to the surface.

By doing that unconditionaly we lulled or selves into a deep suffer. It can be the trigger of all infliction within ourselves, We never get satisfied or gratefull of what we are .We have to remind ourselves that no body is perfect, no matter how hard they try to attempt. Just accept yourself  for who you are not who you think you should be!

"We were meant to be unique than perfect. The world would be a boring place if everybody would be perfect" Ganesha Golha.